Chinese Horse and Ox Compatibility
Chinese Horse and Ox make excellent business partners, but as a pair they are not without problems. They have two different ways of looking at life. Ox prefers to stay home and create a quiet, relaxing atmosphere, while Horse wants adventure. This can be extremely frustrating for both.
If they are truly committed, they may make it work, but it will require Horse to learn to love quieter environments and Ox needs to open up for the occasional adventure. If they look closely, they can see that there are qualities in each that the other admires. Ox is always there for Horse when they need them, and Horse has a great work ethic that Ox admires. Horse has an inferiority complex that makes it difficult for them to open up to their partner. Ox may be just the person to help them do this, however.
When this pairing consists of a Horse man and an Ox woman, the difficulties can be very hard to overcome. They make excellent friends; it is just difficult for them to live together. They may end up being one of those couples that fought like cats and dogs while married, yet once they are divorced end up lunching together on a regular basis.
When this pairing consists of an Ox man and a Horse woman, he slowly comes to the realization that he cannot possess her fully as he would wish. She wants her independence too much. She isn't happy being a domestic and wants her own excitement.